Today, the sermon seemed to be a bit off kilter, as I reflected on the things that I learned from my dad. I love this picture, as my largest male influence pulled me deeply into a spot...most safe.
It is hard to explain what this one does to me. My dad taught me to be faithful in the simple things. He was a model of consistency, and a bedrock of stability. He had a great, infectious laugh, and loved life. His death taught me that God moved in mysterious ways, and that the life should be squeezed out of each second. (See T-Shirt post about 6 posts prior)
Now that I am raising a little man, I am obligated to teach him about life. He will learn much on his own, from his mom, or from others, but I play a major role in his development. So what will I teach him?
1- To root for the Cubs and Red Sox
2-Cheer for the Clemson Tigers and Dallas Cowboys
3-Love and Respect all people, ideas, and cultures
4-Play hard, without the fear of losing
5-Laugh until he wants to puke
6- Search for God in unexpected places
7- Embrace his heritage
8-Shoot a Hook Shot
9-Throw a Curve Ball
10- Each breath is bathed with grace....that should bewilder and amaze.
11- Read books that challenge and stretch the mind
12- Trust God, even when he is noticeably absent
13-See the potential lying just beneath the surface
14-To realize how liberating it is to say, "I'm Sorry."
15-To look for a mate that will help him become a better man.
16-Music history....Sam Cooke, Marvin Gaye, Jimi Hendrix, The Stones, The Beatles, Prince, and countless others
17-Prayer is more listening than asking God for stuff
18- We fail God, each other, and ourselves, often.
19- God forgives, and we should follow suit.
Having a father and being a father...a gracious gift indeed!
