April Reads

Fairly honest book, as Groeschel speaks about the things that irk him about the entity called the church. One thing that really lights him up is when Christian people judge others. It is good for a few laughs and is a good representation of the heart of many pastors. I give it 3 stars.

So, I tried to read this a few months back and was disappointed. I was too busy comparing it to his other books instead of taking it as a work unto itself. Upon revisitation, I appreciated Don Miller and his ability to share a good story or two. Shhh, I still like Blue Like Jazz and Searching for God Knows What a lot better. I still give it 3 stars.

Pretty disappointed in this book. There were a few stories but all in all it seems to be slick marketing with not a lot of substance. I give this one 2 stars.

Scripture translated by a scholar team and creative team. It is an attempt to make the scripture speak with a different tone and spark creativity. I liked it and purchased several of the others in the series. Is it an adequate translation? No--but it does make sparks fly sometimes and as a communicator, I like that.

Interesting work, although I do not buy into everything he espouses. I do see the value in looking at yourself and asking "Why am I the way I am?" Often it reverts back to parental and familial structure. Valuable in premarital counselling and other issues. I give it 3 stars.

I am a big Calvin Miller fan. This book speaks to the value of pastoral care vs. the Mega church--CEO--approach to ministry. Get off the golf course and get into the hospital. Amen, my friend and 4 stars to you.

Sometimes I read something other than Christian material. This one was an attempt to explain why men are the way we are. Interesting, but it reduces men to a bunch of sex starved dogs. I picked up a cheap copy at Barnes and Noble, it was much different from my usual reading. I give it a 2.5 on the Jenkins star scale. Are all men dogs? Really? If you care to be critical of my reading this book, I ask that you read the first book on this list. Groeschel may not care for you, too much!

Loved It!! Loved It!! Loved It!! 4.5 stars! In the top 5 books I have read over the past 3 years.

Sermon Recap--MAP testing

For the past two weeks, I have been overseeing kindergarten and first graders taking the MAP tests. My job consisted of going in each morning, equipped with a large coffee and espresso beverage, and turning on the computers. I would then log into the system and pull up the appropriate test. I would have the students names up on the computer when the arrived into the lab and give them last minute instructions. Most importantly, I maintained order and prevented cheating.

The instructions given to the kids were as follows:

1- This is not a race. Do your best and take your time.

2- No looking at your friends computer.

3- No talking during the test.

4-There will be answers that you do no know. So, Do your best and then give it a guess.

5- When you are finished, raise your hand and then your teacher will get your score.

6- Read quietly and show respect for those who are still working.

Despite the warnings of difficulties to come, the kids responded differently when they encountered a hard problem on the test. Some followed my instruction and "did their best and then guessed." One little guy actually said a bad word when he encountered division for the first time. Many sat there, staring at the screen refusing to budge until they "got it right." Some even cried because they did not know multiplication (as a kindergartner). The two week period made me think a lot about tests and trials and wondering what the bible has to say about it.

James 1 says to us this day:

Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing.

Now the first part of this passage is most difficult to grasp. Troubles are an opportunity for Joy??

Some things just go great together. Peanut Butter and Jelly, Salt and Pepper, and Ham and Cheese. But Trouble and Joy--wow, almost too much to believe.

How can we be joyous when the garbage is heaped on our heads? How can we be happy when our lives seem to be falling apart?

The key is seeing that we are not to be Joyous because of the trouble. But the trouble is a chance for God to prove himself as a mountain mover.

On this Mother's Day, I am reminded of the things that my mom taught me. There were many and she taught a lot by using the word "Don't."

"Don't pick your nose!"

"Don't hit your sister!"

"Don't you speak to me in that tome of voice!"

"Don't leave the house without clean underwear."

"Don't play that music so loud!"

"Don't drink and drive!"

But in light of this verse she also taught me the following that works today:

"Don't Give Up!"

"Don't Give In!"

"Don't Give Out!"

So--what test is bringing you the chance to look back later and see that God is faithful? What are you and I doubting God to help us with?

The purpose of the MAP test is to put the kids in a national percentile and see how they measure up. Some were great--some not so great. Many were just average.

The good news of the Gospel is that although our test scores in life are "below the expectation" of the perfection of our Holy God, Jesus takes the results and makes us all have perfect scores.

Trials and Tests provide the avenue for Faith and maturity!

This morning--We awoke to thunder and lightning and torrents of rain! How interesting that on this day of preaching about trials, I have one.

We have been having about 80 people each Sunday in worship and today we have 15. But you are here and I feel that perhaps someone needs just this sermon in this intimate group.

Look at the rain falling down. It serves a purpose and it will pass, but God's love endures forever.

Sermon Recap--"The Discovery"

On Monday, I received a phone call from a young lady needing a wedding performed. She asked me a few questions and I gave her a few answers. The conversation lasted about 10 minutes and concluded with an amazing piece of wisdom given by me.

"The most important thing that you need is a marriage license. There is a 24 hour waiting period for a license in SC. You will need to contact the Clerk of Court, in a city in SC by Thursday, in order to receive the license in time for the wedding. They are not open on the weekend. Sometimes, people in NC (where she was from) go just across the state line and get a license and drive down and are married here in Horry County. Remember---there is a 24 hour waiting period."

Her reply--"Yes sir, I understand."

I hate it when young people call me sir!!

So, on Friday while pulling into SONIC for our daily limeade fix, my phone rang. The young lady frantically said, "Mr. Jenkins, I have a big problem. I arrived at the office to get my license and they told me it would be a 24 hour waiting period. Since today is Friday, they will not be able to get me a license until Monday. You are supposed to marry us tomorrow--what are we going to do?"

Do you remember our conversation where I gave you instructions and told you the most important thing was the license?

"Yes--but I thought that if I brought you a receipt then you would do the ceremony. Now they are saying that they will not give me a receipt or mail it to us. I have to pick it up--and the earliest it will be ready is Monday. What am I going to do?

"I am so sorry--It could be that someone here will perform the ceremony for you--but it would be illegal to do so. I wish I could help you, but the license is the essential part. One good thing--after all this issue, I am sure that it will give you great practice for handling stress when you are married."

She laughed--and replied, "Well Chaplain, I guess I will have to have my honeymoon before the wedding."

My answer--"I hope you have a great weekend--no license is needed for that!

So this week I made a great and valuable discovery.

NO ONE LISTENS TO A THING I SAY!!

The next day, Douglas and I went to Kroger to pick up part of a surprise for Sarah's birthday. On the way there, we talked about how it would be a surprise and a secret. We walked to the bakery and picked out a small cheesecake. Just above it, was a rack of candles--so we picked a box and walked toward the checkout. Again, I took the time to talk to Douglas about the cake being a surprise. He told me he understood. We walked to the car, hand in hand. I unlocked the door, and he got in and buckled up. After getting in, I cranked the car and looked in the rear view mirror and we went over it again.

We get home, Douglas rings the doorbell. Shhh--It is a surprise, Douglas. I will hide the cake behind my back.

Sarah opens the door and Douglas says,

"Mommy, we bought you a cheesecake and a lot of candles and we are going to have it for you tomorrow."

As I said, NO ONE LISTENS TO A THING I SAY.

So, I do not have a great deal of confidence as I stand before you as your pastor. Based on this past week, "Ain't nobody listening anyway."

But, is that really a bad thing?

Let's go to the scripture and see what is there for us today.

Acts 3

Peter and John went to the Temple one afternoon to take part in the three o’clock prayer service. As they approached the Temple, a man lame from birth was being carried in. Each day he was put beside the Temple gate, the one called the Beautiful Gate, so he could beg from the people going into the Temple. When he saw Peter and John about to enter, he asked them for some money. Peter and John looked at him intently, and Peter said, “Look at us!” The lame man looked at them eagerly, expecting some money. 6 But Peter said, “I don’t have any silver or gold for you. But I’ll give you what I have. In the name of Jesus Christ the Nazarene, get up and walk!” Then Peter took the lame man by the right hand and helped him up. And as he did, the man’s feet and ankles were instantly healed and strengthened. He jumped up, stood on his feet, and began to walk! Then, walking, leaping, and praising God, he went into the Temple with them. All the people saw him walking and heard him praising God. When they realized he was the lame beggar they had seen so often at the Beautiful Gate, they were absolutely astounded! They all rushed out in amazement to Solomon’s Colonnade, where the man was holding tightly to Peter and John.

Peter saw his opportunity and addressed the crowd. “People of Israel,” he said, “what is so surprising about this? And why stare at us as though we had made this man walk by our own power or godliness? For it is the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob—the God of all our ancestors—who has brought glory to his servant Jesus by doing this.

So, we see a healing, something miraculous. Peter gives all credit to God. He could have said, "Wow--look at what I just did!" Instead--all the good stuff was because of God.

The preaching event is peculiar. I spend some time getting sermons together. I hope to use correct grammar and have a flow of meaning and structure. It would be nice for some emotion to come forth from the sermon. A good sermon often has laughter and tears. Good stories remind us of our frailty and need of restoration and healing. Stories by themselves do nothing.

We go to scripture and see how God works in the lives of his people. We are reminded of his faithfulness and his precepts for his children. But the bible does nothing by itself. It is not a magic book filled with abracadabra and hocus pocus.

But something magical happens when "Word and Spirit" come together.

If anything of any eternal consequence takes place--it is all because the Spirit of God is at work.

I cannot get someone to follow through with picking up a marriage license or teach my son to keep a secret. How can I really speak words that make a difference?

How does that make me feel?

Great--It is not all about me, it is about the Word of God and the Holy Spirit working together.

Guess what? The same thing is at work in your life.

Guess what? The cheesecake was fine although the surprise was ruined. The couple will get married soon, after this little bump in the road. You will try again after failure--and will be given grace. It is all about God--now what a great DISCOVERY.

Itchy Noses--Sermon Recap

This time of year, it seems that everyone that I bump into is coughing or sneezing all over me. Not sure why this happens, maybe I am just approachable and sneezeonable--but it happens. Watery eyes and itchy noses abound, and it seems that all the students at Myrtle Beach Primary are sickly.

Growing up, an itchy nose meant something entirely different. I am unsure if this saying meant the same thing up north, so I am asking for a little clarity. When I would say to my mom, "My nose is itching" her reply would always be the same. I am wondering if my mom was weird, or normal. I have my inclinations, but need a bit of wisdom here.

Northerners, If you would have made that statement to your mom, what would the answer have been?

One reply--"It means that you will soon be kissing a fool."

Another--"It means that someone would come to see you with holes in their britches."

Ok--possibly we are on to something. What about you folks that call yourself, southerners?

Answer-"It means that you would soon have company."

Well, I guess my mom was a true dispenser of all things Southern, because that was her answer.

Now, the question that I have, and this does have a point, is that why is it that whenever someone comes to our house, we always apologize for the looks of the house?

Even if we have just cleaned up, if someone comes in, we always apologize and say,"Please excuse the mess." Why do we feel like we need to be better than we are.

Why is it that sometimes we sweep everything into a closet and hope that it will not be found until we can actually get back to it?

OK--wives, what if you have swept all the junk into a closet. All the broken toys, all the piles of dirty laundry, and all the garbage that you hastily gathered is hidden. Then mother in law arrives, and walks over to the closet. You try to distract her, you tell her how great her hair looks, you offer to paint her toe-nails, anything to keep her from finding you OUT. She reaches for the doorknob anyway and.....

The scripture today speaks to the condition of our lives. It is one that makes me quake in fear.

Revelation 3

"To the angel of the church in Laodicea write:

These are the words of the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the ruler of God's creation. I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! So, because you are lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—I am about to spit you out of my mouth. You say, 'I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.' But you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked. I counsel you to buy from me gold refined in the fire, so you can become rich; and white clothes to wear, so you can cover your shameful nakedness; and salve to put on your eyes, so you can see. Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline.

Wow-it is as if Jesus has gone over to the closets of the church at Laodicea and opened it up. All the halfway mess has came crashing down. We realize that we too are in the same situation. We know what we are to do. We know what God's word says, but yet--we are content to do things are own way. The terrible part of this approach to life is that, IT MAKES GOD VOMIT.

When we eat something that makes us sick, how often do we run right back to it and try it again. Once that taste is in our mouths--we want to forget about it. A friend of mine got sick at a Cracker Barrel one day, and has yet to go back. It evokes bad memories, not to mention, his gag reflex.

If Jesus ignored that which made him vomit--we would be in such a desperate situation. But the text does not end with the vomiting experience. There is good news for you, and me. It concludes this way:

Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline. So be earnest, and repent. Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me. To him who overcomes, I will give the right to sit with me on my throne, just as I overcame and sat down with my Father on his throne. He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches."

He has opened the closets of our lives, and became sick. But, he helps to clean us up, and invites us to begin again. He comes back, and knocks on the door--he longs to fellowship and eat with us. He longs to know and enjoy us, he longs to laugh, hold and love us.

Does your nose itch?

Perhaps he is knocking. Company is coming--will we let him in?

Sermon Recap--"Recession?"

This year I have been spending quite a few hours in the primary school. This has been valuable, as I have been given many sermon nuggets and also techniques for teaching. One thing that I have learned is that kids learn anything if you put it in the form of a song. For about 3 weeks, I have heard the following song about money. There are a couple of kids here on the from row that may be willing to help, as well. (They did.)

I like money...to buy things at the store.

Money, Money, Money...I always want more.

The penny's worth one cent

The nickel's worth five

The dime is worth ten cent

The quarter's twenty-five

I like money...to buy things at the store.

Money, Money, Money...I always want more.

A building's on one cent

A building's on five

A torch is on ten cent

An eagles on twenty-five.

I like money...to buy things at the store.

Money, money, money...I always want more.

Lincoln's on one cent

Jefferson's on five

Roosevelt's on ten cent

and Washington's on twenty-five.

I like money...to buy things at the store.

Money, money, money...I always want more.

This week on my day off, I was running errands and popped in a local Starbucks. They were introducing a new coffee and I had been captivated by the ads and "had to have it."

So, I pulled out my money--to buy things at the store.

Hard to get that tune out of your head, Isn't it?

I paid and walked over to the prep area. You see my life and coffee is not complete until I put just the right amount of half and half in the cup of JOY. Wow, I love me coffee!!

Sitting just to the right of the prep area was what seemed to be Grandma, Mom and son, ages approximately 60, 38 and 6. There were stacks of Pokemon cards on the table. The Grandma asked the little boy, "Do you have all the cards?" His curt reply, "No Gramma--that is what ebay is for!!

Money...money...money--I always want more.--I sang to myself.

"So, the grandma said, there are a lot more that you need?"

"Gramma--there are so many more things that I need that I do not have."

The mom noticed that I had been smiling as I listened in on the conversation. She looked at me, and said--"now that will preach."

So---It has.

We are told from an early age that we need more stuff and must have more stuff. This stuff will make us happy. When will we learn?

Many parables deal with Money and the slippery spot that we get ourselves in with it. Luke 12 is one such parable told by Christ.

Someone in the crowd said to him, "Teacher, tell my brother to share the inheritance with me."
He replied to him, "Friend, who appointed me as your judge and arbitrator?" Then he said to the crowd, "Take care to guard against all greed, for though one may be rich, one's life does not consist of possessions."

Then he told them a parable. "There was a rich man whose land produced a bountiful harvest.
He asked himself, 'What shall I do, for I do not have space to store my harvest?' And he said, 'This is what I shall do: I shall tear down my barns and build larger ones. There I shall store all my grain and other goods and I shall say to myself, "Now as for you, you have so many good things stored up for many years, rest, eat, drink, be merry!"

But God said to him, 'You fool, this night your life will be demanded of you; and the things you have prepared, to whom will they belong?' Thus will it be for the one who stores up treasure for himself but is not rich in what matters to God."

He said to (his) disciples, "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life and what you will eat, or about your body and what you will wear. For life is more than food and the body more than clothing.

If life is not about stuff--then what is it about???

A few weeks back, Bob and Elaine Moody and I went to Charleston for a Doctor's appointment. I drove them down and we stopped at Burger King to get a salad because we could not find a Wendy's. We did not have enough "gap" time to go into a "sit down and have someone serve us" establishment. Bob ordered his Chicken sandwich and Elaine and I ordered a grilled chicken salad. We got to the table and opened the salads. I looked all in the bag and in the packaging for a fork. There was none to be found.

I walked back to the condiment station and scanned the area: ketchup, mayo, mustard, napkins, spoons, knives, lids for the drinks, coffee stirrers, sugar, creamer, splenda, equal, and sweet-n-lo, but NO FORKS!!

I walked up to the counter and asked for a fork.

"I am sorry, was the reply from the cashier, we are out of forks."

For one of the rare times in my life--I was almost speechless. But that did not last long.

"Well, Perhaps you could tell me how I am to eat a salad without a fork?"

"Oh, we will go to the store and buy some."--She said.

"I am sorry, but we are en route to a Doctor's appointment. Perhaps we could get something else.

She allowed us to trade in for a non fork item!!

The point is that all the stuff we think we need in out lives are like the salad. The look good and make our mouths water. Jesus is like the fork--he is the only way that we can truly enjoy any of it at all.

Rich Mullins sings about stuff and the things we think we need in his song, "My One Thing."

"Everybody I know says they need just one thing

And what they really mean is that they need just one thing more

And everybody seems to think they've got it coming

Well I know that I don't deserve You

Still I want to love and serve You more and more

You're my one thing

Save me from those things that might distract me

Please take them away and purify my heart

I don't want to lose the eternal for the things that are passing

'Cause what will I have when the world is gone

If it isn't for the love that goes on and on.

Our challenge as believers is to always remember that Jesus is all we need. I ask that as we sing our closing hymn, we pay close attention to the words and look how diametrically opposed they are to the "Money" song I shared earlier.

I’d rather have Jesus than silver or gold;

I’d rather be His than have riches untold;

I’d rather have Jesus than houses or lands;

I’d rather be led by His nail-pierced hand

Refrain:

Than to be the king of a vast domain,

Or be held in sin’s dread sway;

I’d rather have Jesus than anything

This world affords today.

I’d rather have Jesus than men’s applause;

I’d rather be faithful to His dear cause;

I’d rather have Jesus than worldwide fame;

I’d rather be true to His holy name

He’s fairer than lilies of rarest bloom;

He’s sweeter than honey from out the comb;

He’s all that my hungering spirit needs;

I’d rather have Jesus and let Him lead

So, the good news for Christians is that perhaps a "Recession" isn't really all that bad after all.

Sermon Recap--"The Moment of Truth"

Throughout history there have been many party games and game shows that focus on some sort of Truth. There was the popular game--"Truth or Consequences" and "To Tell the Truth", we even played "Truth or Dare" as kids and young adults. There is a new game show on now that is called "The Moment of Truth." The premise of the show is that the contestant has been hooked up to a lie detection device and asked a lot of questions. All they have to do to win a ton of money is to have there answers revealed before a live and national audience. The more answers that they truthfully complete, the more money they make. These are terrible questions like, "Do you think you are a better mom than your own mother?" Guess who is asking the question---that's right, it is the MOM. I cannot even watch this show because it makes Sarah ask me a bunch of questions that are foolish and often unanswerable--plus, I am not getting any money for it!!

Some of the TRUTH questions that have caused the most havoc on the show are:

Have you ever had sex to move up on the job?

Have you ever cheated on your wife?

If you knew you could cheat on your wife and get away with it...would you?

Do you regret breaking up with your last boyfriend?

If he wanted you back--would you leave your current boyfriend?

Does your mom meddle too much in your marriage?

Do you hate your mother in law?

Have you ever stolen anything from work?

Just watching these people squirm and sweat and lose their friends, family, and reputation for a few thousand dollars is beyond reason to me. Most of the contestants stop when they win 100,000 bucks. After taxes that is 50,000 and after the divorce it is 25,000 before lawyers fees. TRUTH is we are a GREEDY society.

Jesus speaks to us about truth when he says to us in John 14 the following:

"Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God ; trust also in me. In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going." Thomas said to him, "Lord, we don't know where you are going, so how can we know the way?" Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

Jesus defines himself as the TRUTH, the WAY, and the LIFE. Thomas is involved in a "moment of truth" when he is face to face with Jesus. Jesus tells Thomas that he does not need a GPS to get to heaven--as a follower of Jesus, his life and eternity is secured. Jesus will return and secure all those who are his.

Think about all the cross road decisions, moments of truth that we see in the scripture:

Adam and Eve in the garden

Noah building the ark

Abraham and Isaac at the altar

Daniel in the lions den

David and Bathsheeba

The woman at the well

Peter denying Christ

Some made great decisions in the moment of truth and some did not.

Now--think about your life, as I think about mine. Each day we too encounter moments of truth. Opportunities in life to walk as Children of TRUTH and LIFE that know the WAY through the pitfalls and landmines. Sometimes we navigate them easily, and sometimes we stumble.

This too is a moment of truth. This is a time to realize how sinful we are, but yet how gracious Christ is. He calls to us this day:

If you confess, I will forgive.

If you believe--I will increase your faith.

If you listen, I will speak.

I AM THE WAY, THE TRUTH, and THE LIFE---In me, all things are possible.

Readings for March

1- Becoming Conversant with the Emerging Church by D.A. Carson

Carson presents a conservative argument and explanation of the Emerging Church movement. If you are reading Books by McLaren, Burke, and the rest of the leaders of this movement--it is always good to read something that is being volleyed back from the opposite side of the net. Carson brought up some very valid points, and I see this as a good read. I give it 3.5 stars.

2- The Shack by William P. Young

I usually do not read Christian fiction. No, I am not being a snob or anything, I just never really got into it. My father in law has been talking about Christian fiction for years, and I still avoided it. Maybe I need to listen more? Sorry Gramps!

This one was sent to me by a great friend and since I value his opinion, I was morally obligated to read the darn thing. Especially since he would ask me how I liked it!!

The first 10 pages, I was angry that he sent it--but then I fell into it and LOVED it.

So, thanks Scott! You will find things that make you mad, and you may have some theological issues depending on your "stances". It is a book that makes you think, and that is something that is lacking in many of our lives. I give it 4.25 stars.

So, Scott--I am looking for something that starts horrible and ends well to recommend for you!

Sermon Recap- "Exposed"

Some of my sermons could not be preached at the First Baptist Church, or First Methodist Church, or while wearing a formal, black Genevan Gown in the First Presbyterian pulpit. Each week, I try to share my life and attempt to find out what God is saying to us all through those events. This week, has been a bit awkward.

I visited my mom this past week, and not too long after arrival, I noticed a large knot. It kept getting larger and became throbbingly painful. I knew that I needed to go to visit a local doctor, but since I did not have one of my own, the urgent care clinic was my destination.

Now this seems like a pretty simple and straightforward story, but from the sermon title, you will quickly understand that this was not a pleasant experience for me. The bump was in a "sensitive" spot, below the waist that generally is not viewed by a lot of people. If you need more info, it was front side, below waist, awkwardness. Now, we are on the same page. See, I told you this sermon would not "fly" at a formal church. (Laughter erupts)

So, once I get in the room, I tell the nurse what is going on. Her reply, "Oh my!" Just what I was thinking myself. She said, "The Doc will be right in to check that out."

He came in and move me to a surgical area. He did what docs do with lumps in that area, and then he called the nurse in to help with the gauze packing and taping. He gave me instructions, gave her instructions and left the room.

I could hear the buzz of the fluorescent lights as the awkwardness enveloped us.

She said, "I see that you are from Myrtle Beach, What brings you here?" I felt like she was wanting to make small talk. Although I was in no mood for talking at all, especially after the shot I had just received. I explained that I was visiting my mom and that she was so happy to be spending time with my 6 year old son. Hoping this would end the small talk, but quickly finding out that the person gawking at a place ungawked at often was quite the chatterbox.

"So what do you do, at the beach?"

I sighed and replied, "I am a chaplain."

"Well, let me ask you a question chaplain--Do ya mind?"

Since I was being held captive, I had no choice--"No, that is fine, go ahead."

"Well, I was married for 30 years and my husband cheated on me. We divorced and a year later he got prostate cancer. I think he got what he deserved. Yep, I think God punished him because of what he did. What do you think, Chaplain?"

Now, I am in trouble, she has me in a precarious situation. Before I tell you my response, I ask you, "What would you say?"

Well, the scripture speaks to us about things such as this. In the form of a Narrative, we learn about the kind of relationship Jesus wants with us. Let's look closely and see what there is to learn.

Luke 10: 38-42

“As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!” “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”

The nurse that was patching me up, was a Martha. Her idea of rightness with Jesus was being busy doing good things. Martha was expected by the society in which she lived to be about working and preparing. She became indignant when Mary was comfortable sitting in the presence of Christ. A relationship with Christ is not about DOING, it is about BEING. We are to BE His.

On the way home from the upstate, a jeep passed me going super fast. It had written on the back and sides, "My soldier is coming home today." I am not sure of the drivers name, but she reminded my of Mary. With every part of her being she longed to be in the presence of the ONE who loved her. He was hers, and she was his. It is all about the BEING!

Now, BEING in Christ should lead to an outpouring of DOING. But we can never base our worth to God on how faithful we are. If that is the case, then our salvation is a work. That would make the work of Christ on the cross to be insignificant. But if our relationship with God rests firmly in our BEING one that Christ redeemed...now that is where TRUTH stands.

Because we are redeemed, then our lives should reflect love, grace and forgiveness. But because of Christ death, when God looks at us, He sees Perfection. Jesus blood, covers us, he took the wrath of God for us. See...it is all about BEING his.

So, what did I tell the nurse? What I just told you, in a simpler form. Relationships are never easy, we all fail each other--even when having the greatest and best of intentions. Sickness is an effect of living in a sinful and fallen world, and that God is not a scorekeeper. If God did keep score, none of us would be spared. Jesus already paid all that debt for his children.

I went back in a few days later. The lady was a different person. She seemed to be free from her anger. When she patched me up after the doc checked me out, she said, "Where do you preach, Chaplain."

I answered her, wondering what was next.

"I will check you out when I come to the beach," was the reply.

The Gospel--the Naked truth of the love of Christ--is the only way to "expose" us to the lavish love of God.

That, my friends is Good News.

Easter Sermon Recap--Look it's a ___________!

Easter Morning brought great crowds again to the Apache Pier. We served communion to 500 people on this windy and chilly Easter morning.

This past week, I was part of a teacher brigade that took Autistic children to the Ripley's Aquarium. I am not sure how many of you have spent any time there, but it is a very neat place. We wandered from exhibit to exhibit checking out the horseshoe crabs, sharks, sting-rays, eels, and turtles. One of the most beautiful sections is the section of "Rainbow" fish. Kids stood there with their mouths agape as they watched the brilliant yellows, bright blues, and vibrant golds and silvers dash about the tank. There was even a fish with a Clemson orange fin, that he used for defense. It was amazing standing beside the children and watching them take it all in.

One of our little ones yelled out at the rest of the crew, "Look, it's a TV!!" The entire group then traded in the amazing display of nature for a digital image on a 50 inch screen. Missing the real for something else, I wonder if that ever happened in the scripture?

John 20:11-18 reads this way:

Mary was standing outside the tomb crying, and as she wept, she stooped and looked in. She saw two white-robed angels sitting at the head and foot of the place where the body of Jesus had been lying.

“Why are you crying?” the angels asked her.

“Because they have taken away my Lord,” she replied, “and I don't know where they have put him.”

She glanced over her shoulder and saw someone standing behind her.

It was Jesus, but she didn't recognize him.

“Why are you crying?” Jesus asked her. “Who are you looking for?” She thought he was the gardener.

“Sir,” she said, “if you have taken him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will go and get him.”

“Mary!” Jesus said.

She turned toward him and exclaimed, “Teacher!”

Amazingly, exactly what Mary was looking for was right beside her. She allowed the frustration and anxiety of the moment to keep her from immediately recognizing Christ.

On Thursday, my 5 year old son dyed Easter eggs in his class. His egg was the best! No, I am not making this up, the teacher actually told me. The egg was perfect, colored purple on one side and red on the other. He was so excited. He was running around the class showing this prized egg to all his friends. He held it a bit too tightly and....the shell cracked. He wailed, he cried. The world was over, "Humpty Dumpty" style. His two teachers tried to calm him down, to no avail. Douglas said, "This is horrible, I guess we have to cancel Easter." (Laughter all around)

The teachers had informed me of the story, and I wanted to try to make everything OK. Sometimes I seem to make things worse, but I keep trying. When we all arrived home, I asked Douglas to show me his egg. He acted like he was going to cry again. I asked him to tell me what happened.

"Dad, my egg was the best and I broke it. This is bad, we have to cancel Easter!"

"Douglas, let's look closely at this egg. Can you help me?"

"Yes, Dad."

"Lets pull this broken shell off the egg. I will get it started, is that OK?"

"OK, Dad, Can I help you?"

"Sure"

We pulled off the cracked colored shell and I got down a small plate from the cupboard. I dusted the bottom with salt and pepper and we ate the egg together.

"This is yummy, Dad"

"Do we need to cancel Easter, Douglas?"Things seem to be OK."

"Here Dad, have another bite"

So, here we are about to approach the table of Christ this morning with broken lives. He calls to us and reminds us of how nothing is beyond his repair. What is broken in our lives? Relationships, Marriages, finances, our career, our relationship with God, all of these---can be made new.

This morning, as you look over the ocean to the horizon, you see the sun peeking out. Another reminder from God, that he makes all things new.

May we prepare our hearts to celebrate the mystery of Communion.

Easter is not over!! Christ says to us, "This is my body, broken for you. He whispers on this chilly morning, "This is my blood poured out as ransom for all who believe."

Happy Easter! He is Here, my prayer is that we are able to recognize Him.

Sermon Recap--Who we are and what we do

Sorry for the extended layoff from bloggerdom. Many legitimate reasons, none of which you care to hear.

I cannot possibly type in 4 weeks worth of sermons, so I will providing a general overview of the sermons on the nature and function of the church.

Week 1 was an emphasis on worship. This is the primary function of the church. Many seem to place the focus on evangelism, but in my opinion the most important function of the body of Christ is to be a community centered on worshipping God and living a life of enjoying that relationship that we have been graciously given. All other functions of the church flow from our life of worship. Missing worship(the primary) chokes life for the other functions(the secondary). Those functions are fellowship, evangelism, discipleship and ministry.

What do we think of when we hear the word, worship? So many facets play into the makings of a "service of worship."

What kind of music is a question that people ask? Some churches sing Psalms only, some love the old hymns, some like contemporary music, some chant, some like praise and worship. Some churches have full choirs, some use praise teams, some have bands, some have piano only, some have only an organ, some have both. Some churches play hand bells, some play harmonicas and banjos. We use a karaoke machine. Some churches play no music--only using their voices to worship God.

What about the setting in which the service is held? Some churches use colors to signify the "season" of the church year, while some worship areas never change. Some burn incense, while some do not. Some allow children into the assembly during the sermon, while others banish them to another area of the building.

What about the sermon? Some are full of hell fire and damnation, while others are full of warm fuzzies. Some sermons are expository, while some are topical. Some sermons are narrative in nature and some are not.

So--what is worship anyway. What is the church?

The church is those whom Christ has redeemed from their sins. We are the ones who have been called by the spirit from a life of darkness into a marvelous light.

The church is NOT a building--but are simply--broken people in the process of being molded into the image of Jesus.


Worship is the act of gathering together and focusing our attention on God. We focus on the blessings of salvation and life eternal. We focus on the needs that God meets each moment. We focus on our sin and need of confession and forgiveness. We sing praises to God. We look into the scripture for a word from him. We partake in the sacraments and experience the mysteries of God. God is worthy of worship even if He has done nothing at all for us. But, oh...he has done so much!

Only by being a people of worship, can we become a people of fellowship, evangelism, discipleship and ministry.


The second sermon dealt with discipleship. We are to make disciples. How is this done? I used event from school the previous week. There is one child where positive affirmation is what makes her behave correctly. When she is doing the right thing, I give her a Skittle. It is amazing what someone can be taught when they want something. I have taught her to say, "Go Tigers" when she gets and orange one and "Boo Gamecocks" when she gets a red one. But the best part is that by using these skittles I have taught her table manners and proper classroom procedures too.

Many Christians need affirmation and encouragement too. We must find ways to find people doing good things and give them praise. It is an amazing tool.

The other side of teaching/discipleship was also proven this week. There was a little guy who would not let me hold his hand when we entered the hall. He would yell and scream and cry every time I grabbed it. But, if I did not have his hand, he would run down the hall at breakneck speed. So what did I do?

I tried to be gentle and kind and rational and lavish him with love and praise. None of this helped. So, he flopped in the floor and I accidentally stepped on his hand. (I PROMISE IT WAS NOT ON PURPOSE.) The tears flowed and after wiping them off, I was able to explain to him that that would not happen if he would just walk down the hall in an orderly manner. I was not there to hurt him, I only wanted to help him. Guess what? No other issues this week after that "stepping" experience.

Some people need a step experience in the disciple making process. We know who we are to be, we know when we are flat out disobeying God, and sometimes an attitude adjustment is necessary. But before that is delivered, we better have the proper relationship with that person.

What is the proper approach? Well, some ministers and church folks spend too much time stepping on people. Some give out skittles all the time and never say anything negative. I think the proper approach is an attempt to do both.

In my ministry, I am a skittle person, but there is time that if I have the relationship with the individual, I will be able to do a little stepping. However--I must be willing to have a little stepping applied to my life too. That is the hard part.

We, as the church, should be in the process of helping someone grow as a follower of Christ and also be in the process of being discipled ourselves.


Another function of the church is fellowship. It is interesting that many churches place a premium on fellowship. Every night of the week is another opportunity for a meal, or a small group gathering, or a softball game. These are great things, but great care must be placed that fellowship is not a "primary" instead of a secondary. One of my favorite pastors, Rev. Henry Stanford, once said in a sermon, "It is a shame when we can pack out a gym for an ice cream social and only have 5 people here to visit the lost and sick." The title of his sermon was "Keep the Main thing the Main thing." I understand the point--he is saying that evangelism should take a more important place than fellowship. I think it should be worship as primary, and all of the remaining 4 as equal parts-if we are taking the mathematical pie chart approach.
Fellowship is a funny thing. You cannot force it, it is impossible to make it happen. When we first were married, I would join Sarah's family at a Holiday function. It was always nice, but afterwards her aunt would ask everyone to gather in the formal dining room to talk. We were all in a large circle looking at each other and it was a most awkward experience. Fellowship was wanted, but it often is a natural outpouring of relationship--not something that can be forced and manipulated.
What is the key to fellowship? I think it rests solely on the fact that we are family. Not in the everyone is related (Old West Va. Joke) kind of way. But we are all a part of the body of Christ. We are all great sinners in the process of becoming saints, and we need to have joy in the fact that we are not alone in the journey. Money is of no consequence, looks do not matter, size of house, educational status, talents or lack thereof is inconsequential. We are equal recipients of His grace. Oh, if we ever forget that---we almost deserve to be kicked out of the family.

Evangelism is something that scares folks to death. Evangelism is not just about going door to door, or yelling on the street corner. It is not about leaving tracts in the bathroom stalls. Who would want to pick them up there anyway. It is not about leaving a "tip" tract on a table with a measly dollar in it. What is evangelism about? SIMPLY THIS...tell the story of Jesus to people that you have a relationship. Just tell them what Your relationship with Christ is like. Be honest, talk about the confusion, talk about the frustration, talk about your times of doubts and questioning. I think they will be surprised by your honesty. But remember, to talk about the miracles that He has worked in your life. Remember to give hope, and tell of the joy and peace that He also gives.
I had a 2 hour phone conversation with a great friend the other night. We talked about this and that for about 15 minutes and then He asked a question about doubting. I shared openly about times of struggle in my own life--and how Christ always met me at that point. I told the story of Grace--and the Spirit used the conversation to do mighty things. Don't peddle Jesus like you are selling a used car. Be honest and listen more than you talk.

Ministry is the last function of the church and thinking about it always brings a chuckle. Coming from a Baptist background, I always heard the word pronounced in a holy and overly revered and exaggerated way, "Menustreee." As in, you are such a fine young man, have you ever considered going into the "menustreee." But I have come to realize that ministry does not depend upon a seminary degree or an abbreviation in front of the name, such as Rev. or Dr.

Ministry is reaching out with love and compassion. The key aspect is that we, as the church, seek to do this in the name of Jesus. We are not to be involved in helping others so that they will think well of us, or speak good things about us. Nor should ministry be an "outreach" opportunity to build or pad our church roles. Ministry is walking beside someone in faith and reaching out to them with the compassion and love of Christ.

What are some examples of ministry that have impressed me lately? Well, I am so glad that you asked!

1- A local church has an outreach to single mothers each year. This church gets cosmetologists and hairdressers to come in and give a day of pampering for these "forgotten" ones in our society. They gets a new hair style, pedicures, manicures, and massages. But most importantly, they realize that God cares for them and the church does too. I like this...a LOT!

2- One of our youth groups that came to do a day camp here a few years ago impressed me, as well. On a rainy day, they went to the Laundromat and gave out rolls of quarters. The message--"God loves you."

3- Some churches tutor in the inner cities, and have instituted a mentoring program. Some churches help with rebuilding projects, some actually visit and care about their elderly.

4- This week, people stuffed eggs for our Easter egg hunt. They could have "ranted" against the non-Christian pagan traditions of egg hunting, but instead they were available and made a difference with their smiling faces and warm hugs.

5- After a cookout this week on the pier, we were cleaning up and had discarded all the remaining food. As soon as it had hit the trash can, one of our maintenance guys walked up, hungry and ready for his lunch. Uh--Oh!

A lady here this morning, pulled out the 2 hot dogs that she was going to take home, and gave them to him. AWESOME STUFF!

The key to ministry is to look for your gifts and then try to pair them up with needs around you.

I ask that you join me in prayer about "true ministry"--we may be surprised where God leads us.

~~~What can we do to minister to the Hispanic community? We must remember that Jesus often put great attention and love on those that were considered to be "outsiders" by the establishment.

~~~Should the church leave social issues to the Government, our should we be impacting these situations with the "hands and feet of Jesus?"

~~~What are your ideas? I would love to hear from you!! richsarah99@sc.rr.com

Sermon Recap-"Check Again?"

This week was a break from the routine, as I spent several days in the upstate of SC. Douglas and I left out on Wednesday morning and returned around lunch time yesterday. Tuesday evening was a whirlwind of packing a few things for Douglas and me. As I was going out to load the car, Sarah asked about a few things for Douglas, I replied, "already packed." She responded, and I noticed a hint of sarcasm as she said, "I am so glad that I have a husband that can take care of himself and our son and I do not have to worry." I continued to take the few things to the car and came back in to pick up my hanging clothes. I had done the proper mental check, running through the clothes and necessities.

Underwear--check.
T-Shirts-check.
Shirts-check
Orange Tie- Check
Geneva Gown-check
deodorant-check

I started moving to the car with the remainder of the stuff and a little voice whispered, "Check again."

I did and I had forgotten to pack my pants. Hmm, that would have made for an interesting funeral.

While at my moms, I grabbed my electric toothbrush and slapped some toothpaste on it. I gave my teeth a big brushing and admired their sparkling whiteness in the mirror. Finishing the job, I looked for the cap to my toothbrush. It is a little plastic piece that slides over the bristles. I looked on the shelf, under the sink, in the sink and all over the bathroom. Glancing over to the lavatory cabinet, I saw my blue towel and resting on top of it was my TOOTHBRUSH. I had spent all this time brushing my teeth with my mom's toothbrush. Uggh, that is disgusting.

So, you see. There are things in life that we think we have under control, but in reality--we need to check again. The church is no different. Perhaps we are fooling ourselves and are walking around pantless and with unclean mouths? Could that be possible?

Thursday was a super emotional day as I made a trip to the Rehabilitation center to visit a friend from my childhood and youth. I shared with you last week about his life and situation. He taught me in church for many years and took the time to take me fishing and bowling and was a great example of sharing Jesus through relationships. On Christmas, mom would make sure she picked him up a little gift from me, Soap on a Rope or a little bottle of Old Spice.

Years pass and mental faculties diminish. He had a wreck a few weeks ago and his Drivers license was revoked. He was severely depressed and walked into his basement and found a pistol.

Placing it under his chin, he steadied his grip, and pulled the trigger.

Fast forward a few weeks and I re-enter the story. The receptionist gave me the room number and I made my way to the second floor. The door was wide open to the room and I entered. It was a semi private room and I looked over to the other side and did not recognize anyone around the patients bed. I turned my focus to the remaining bed in the room. The occupant of bed #1 was also a stranger. I leaned over, and verified the name on the hospital issued ID bracelet. Surprisingly, I had the right room. It was my friend.

I leaned closer and grasped his hand. Above the breathing machine, I could hear him rattle and wheeze. He struggled with the restraints and had uncovered himself by kicking his legs. The diaper was in need of a change. I stayed for a little while, and offered words of encouragement and hope. "Keep fighting...Don't give up...God is not through with you...thank-you for teaching me about Jesus...thanks for the fishing trips."

I offered a prayer and left the room with a dark empty soul. Just a few hours earlier, I had felt so very alive and now I achingly longed for that feeling again.

I entered the elevator and could not wait for the door to shut. I needed to be alone with my thoughts. A hand reached inside the closing door and I was joined by another man about my age. He slid to the back of the elevator and I stayed to the front. We did not speak as we zoomed toward the ground floor. Each of us, however, sighed quite loudly.

Stepping out into the dusky evening, I felt a nudging again. I just wanted to get in my car and leave, but instead, I spoke.

"Being in a place like that sure makes the outside world look a lot different."

"You're right, Do you have a family member here?" He replied.

I explained the reason for my visit and noticed that he had a cross on his shirt with an advertisement for a local church.

"I know this sounds odd, but can I pray with you?"

There in the parking lot of a rehab unit in Spartanburg, SC, two strangers had prayer. We looked again to God for comfort and hope. I wanted to be alone--God wanted me to be a comfort.

As a church, we too need to look again at "why we do what we do." Over the next five weeks we are going to be looking at the church and the parts that make us who we are.Those 5 actions are: Worship, Fellowship, Discipleship, Ministry and Evangelism. I ask that you join me in prayer as we seek to know the answer to the question: Are we "as we should be" or are we pantless?

Look around--God has been doing some great things here over the past 2 years. Many new people are coming and there is a warmth that most churches would die to have. Perhaps we are being called to examine what God is doing among us more closely. If we pray and communicate, we may see God moving us to another level, a new ministry, a new phase. Be prepared for CHANGE. That word causes problems around here. I promise you, we will not make changes just for the sake of change. But we must be willing to follow the nudges of the spirit in our lives.

Check again. We may be surprised what we find.

Sermon Recap (Super Bowl Sunday)- "Foolish"

So, is there anything interesting on TV tonight? (Laughter from the congregation)
How many of you are watching the game? (About 75%)
How many are watching the commercials? (About 82%)

Well, for those of you real football fans, and for the ones that just pretend to be one Sunday a year, this is a pretty big deal. The Patriots are undefeated thus far with a record of 18 wins and 0 losses. There is much conversation about if this team is one of the best ever, they have a pretty quarterback and a wide receiver that has the speed of Nike. For the past six weeks, sports commentators have pontificated and postured concerning the merits of this juggernaut from New England. Rumor is that the Patriots have attempted to secure the patent on the phrase 19-0 and also the phrase "The Perfect Season." To me all this attention is quite foolish.

For one who appreciates the English language and the power of words, the idea of a "perfect season" is foolish and impossible.

What does perfect mean?

Does it mean undefeated?

Does it mean meet all challenges and survive unscathed?

Does it mean winners of some football games?

Perfect means--Without error, no mistakes, no "oops", no "I did not mean to's" , and no "I'm sorry's." Perfect means flawless, without blemish and spot.

I have watched almost all of the Patriot games, and none of them have been perfect. There are always a few overthrows or dropped passes. There are a few fumbles and some missed tackles. There are false starts and holding penalties and a few personal fouls. Missed field goals and shanked punts; I think you understand. The term "perfect" is being used a bit too foolishly and loosely.

Paul talks a bit about foolishness in this mornings scripture passage in 1 Corinthians beginning with verse eighteen.

The message of the cross is foolish to those who are headed for destruction! But we who are being saved know it is the very power of God. As the Scriptures say,"I will destroy the wisdom of the wise and discard the intelligence of the intelligent." So where does this leave the philosophers, the scholars, and the world's brilliant debaters? God has made the wisdom of this world look foolish. Since God in his wisdom saw to it that the world would never know him through human wisdom, he has used our foolish preaching to save those who believe. It is foolish to the Jews, who ask for signs from heaven. And it is foolish to the Greeks, who seek human wisdom. So when we preach that Christ was crucified, the Jews are offended and the Gentiles say it's all nonsense. But to those called by God to salvation, both Jews and Gentiles, Christ is the power of God and the wisdom of God. This foolish plan of God is wiser than the wisest of human plans, and God's weakness is stronger than the greatest of human strength.

Remember, dear brothers and sisters, that few of you were wise in the world's eyes or powerful or wealthy when God called you. Instead, God chose things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise. And he chose things that are powerless to shame those who are powerful. God chose things despised by the world, things counted as nothing at all, and used them to bring to nothing what the world considers important. As a result, no one can ever boast in the presence of God. God has united you with Christ Jesus.

For our benefit God made him to be wisdom itself. Christ made us right with God; he made us pure and holy, and he freed us from sin. Therefore, as the Scriptures say, "If you want to boast, boast only about the LORD."

We think we know things, we think we have a grasp on things, the Patriots think they are unbeatable. Most of the media have already crowned them CHAMPS. Remember, even IF they win, they will not be perfect. Watch tonight, enjoy the game and see the flaws that are there in both teams.

Football is a sport built on the premise that if you lift weights, condition your body for speed and agility, memorize the plays, and execute--then success will usually follow.

Sadly, we seem to think the same thing about our relationship with God. If we go to church, read the bible, pray, and do nice things then we will gain an advantage in the eyes of God. Foolish indeed.

Just this week, I went to the post office. There were three empty parking spaces and I whipped the land yacht into the middle one. I went inside and checked the P.O. box and sat back in the car and began to open up the mail. Sometimes I do this, I could wait until I get home, but I often do not. BAM!! A little old lady opened up her car door and smacked the fool out of my car. I immediately raised up and prepared to get out and let her have a piece of my mind. I saw her then, shuffling her wobbly legs slowly, as she squirmed between the small space between our cars. She was unstable and could barely see. I waited on her to clear the front of my car. I wanted to blow the HORN. But I found myself backing up and driving away, angry at God. He always seems to teach me stuff, I guess that is good, but sometimes I wish my ignorance and Foolishness was not so obvious.

Perfection and Christ are synonymous. We try to earn the good spot with God. We think he keeps score when we do good things and pass up the bad. The good news of the Gospel is that in Christ we are forgiven--even if we blow the horn at old women.

We have been given the RIGHTEOUSNESS of Christ!

Imagine if God showed up tonight and gave the Lombardi Trophy to the Giants. Not after the game but before. We know that will not happen because God is a Dallas Cowboy Fan. (Laughter)If God gave the trophy to The Giants without playing that would be grossly unfair.

Now what if the game was played and the Giants were terrible but in the end they were given the trophy anyway? "Not fair--they need to work for it--they must earn it", perhaps you are thinking.

But this morning we come to the Table of Christ to experience the mystery of salvation. We have tried to play the game, and fail all the time. Because of the death and resurrection of Jesus, we are given the gift of immeasurable worth. We are given an identity in Christ, we are adopted into the family of God, we are given abundant life here and eternal life in the loving presence of the King.

New England is not perfect, neither are we---oh, but Christ was, is and will always be! Our only Wisdom and Hope is in him. Any other thinking is foolish.


***FYI***

New York Giants 17
New England Patriots 14

Sermon Recap--Long Division

This morning as I look out at the experienced faces in this room, I see people that grew up before the age of political correctness. Now, don't get me wrong, I try to temper my words and be open minded and look at issues from all sides--but there is something super comforting about people who have the ability to cut right through the junk and say it like it is.

Wal-Mart had an annoying habit of calling problems by a more positive name. Whenever there was an issue the Management Staff would always call them "opportunities." I immediately thought, "Yeah this is an opportunity alright and it is looking more and more like an opportunity to get fired."

One manager even had a light way of letting people know that they were about to be fired. He would call them into the office and look them in the eye and say, "How would you like to have unlimited free time but limited income?" The first part of the phrase was enticing, but the latter sent chills down the back that was followed by a marked increase in performance.

Depending on how you want to look at it, the church has plenty of problems or opportunities. We can all tell stories about failures in OUR CHURCH, issues that are painful and leave us scarred. In my twelve years (wow) of ministry, I have been involved in business meetings that were anything but Christ-like, heard sermons that sounded like they could have been delivered at a Klan rally, and have seen a church almost split over carpet and stained glass windows. The first church I served as Youth and Children's pastor, an aged senior pastor was fired at the age of 60. His wife was in bad health, he was at the age where securing another pastorate would be difficult, and he was losing his eyesight. Needless to say, he did not see the termination coming on that Wednesday night following the "Prayer Meeting." The second church I served one of our college girls did what many of us did in college. In her case, a pregnancy occurred. News spread throughout the community at breakneck speed over the telephone. Guess who was the main "town crier" via telephone? The pastor's wife. Breaks your heart doesn't it? If it doesn't, it should.

The church at Corinth was no different. Often we hear people say, "I wish we could just go back to the days of the early church and everything would be ok." Please!!! We need to realize that the People of God have always been a broken and rag tag gang. Just look at what Paul is dealing with in this mornings passage in the first chapter of 1 Corinthians beginning with verse ten.

I appeal to you, dear brothers and sisters, by the authority of our Lord Jesus Christ, to live in harmony with each other. Let there be no divisions in the church. Rather, be of one mind, united in thought and purpose. For some members of Chloe’s household have told me about your quarrels, my dear brothers and sisters. Some of you are saying, “I am a follower of Paul.” Others are saying, “I follow Apollos,” or “I follow Peter,” or “I follow only Christ.” Has Christ been divided into factions? Was I, Paul, crucified for you? Were any of you baptized in the name of Paul? Of course not!

The word had reached Paul, not via email, text or phone--the letter had arrived or a personal visit from the household of Chloe. In our hearts we can hear the gist of the conversation, "Paul-those people at the Church are the biggest bunch of ___________ that we have ever seen. Congregation answers--Hypocrites

The error in this church still happens today. The emphasis was being placed on the theology of a leader or pastor. Peter had a faction, Apollos had a faction and Paul even had some claiming his name. Think about our churches today- We often identify ourselves with the theology or church government structure of a denomination. Inside those individual denominations there are battles. In the Baptist church there is a strong battle between Calvinists and Arminians. Seminary leadership seem to be worried too much about having people follow their "right" way and buying their books than focusing on the MAIN thing. We often attend a particular church because of the pastor. I hope that you come here because I preach a Message of Grace and Truth that exalts Jesus.

You, dear people, would have no difficulty finding another church to attend. They are everywhere! In Myrtle Beach everywhere you look you see a WINGS, a restaurant, a golf course or a church. Yet, you come here! I hope that it is not because of me being exalted too high in your eyes. Listen--I am amazed that Christ chose me, and uses me to make a small difference in His kingdom. I am reminded of a song that I sang a decade ago in church by Steven Curtis Chapman called the Miracle of Mercy. The words are so true and speak to the condition of each of us.

If the truth was known and a light was shown
On every hidden part of my soul.
Most would turn away, shake their head and say,
"He still has such a long way to go."
If the truth was know you'd see, that the only good in me
is Jesus, oh it's Jesus.

If the walls could speak of the times I've been weak,
when everybody thought I was strong.
Could I show my face if it weren't for the grace
of the one who's known the truth all along?
If the walls could speak they'd say, that my only hope is the grace
of Jesus, the grace of Jesus.

But, oh the goodness and the grace in Him
He takes it all and makes it mine and causes his light in me to shine
and he loves me with a love that never ends.
Just as I am, not as I do
Could this be real, could this be true?
This could only be a miracle
This could only be the miracle of mercy.

Churches sometimes get things right. I was mentored as a young kid by an older man. He turned my need to achieve into a challenge to learn the scripture and complete books in our Missions classes, called Royal Ambassadors. After I expressed interest, he walked me down the hall to the Pastor's study. I accepted Christ, kneeling on worn out yellow green carpet on a Wednesday night. This mentor also taught me in Training Union (bible study) for years and continued doing so for 30 plus years. He took me fishing alongside the Broad River and afterward picked ticks off me. He made a difference.

This past week, I received a phone call. This same man walked into his basement, grabbed a pistol and shot himself. He had lost hope and was ready to end the recent struggles that had robbed him of his freedom and health. He lived and faces a battle still today. Pray for him. Pray for Me. Pray for Each other.

Oh--It is good not to put your hope in anyone--no matter how "good" they seem to be. I am not saying that we no longer need to be subject to accountability either.

We can choose many things. We choose our friends, our clothes, our homes, our spouses, our cars, but we don't choose our family. We are intertwined and engrafted into the mysterious body of Christ. We have to keep striving to be ONE in Him.

Long Divisions have to end, we must forgive as we have been forgiven. He is the head, he is the Lord, He is our reason for being. He died for us--having full knowledge of our failures and selfishness. He knows it all and loves us...still.

You can't be serious!

During the Christmas visit home, I found something that made me laugh. I felt the need to wax sermonic or at least nostalgic for a bit and share it with you.


Most of us have senior pictures. They are a part of our high school legacy. This little gem was taken in 1988, at the time I was eighteen years old and had the world by a string. As I look at the picture, several things jump out at me. THE YELLOW TIE--not too sure about the yellow tie. Looks like I may be thinking of attending GA. Tech. Next is THE HAIR. Oh my, I needed to see a barber in the worst way. If you look closely, you can see the curl extends all the way to the back flip. Then I see the BABY FACE. No wrinkles, or thought lines--I was totally oblivious. The LION RING--that was my thing back then. Finally, THE SMIRK. There is a little smirk there, the reason was that me and 10 other close friends were leaving school after the pictures for a day of blowing off steam at Lyman Lake. Also known as my house, where no parental figures could be spotted.


Take a few breaths...Turn around a few times...cut a few classes...go on some dates...feel your heart flutter...eat bad mexican food...read a few books...drink tanker trucks full of coffee...and 20 years roll past and then your wife, who was nowhere on your mental map in 1988 takes a picture and the NOW digital camera reveals:





Another picture that is vastly different, but in 20 years will be equally as embarrassing.

Sermon Recap--Far and Near

I have been popular this week. Isn't it great to be needed and wanted? All this time, I thought that "the powers that be" in Washington, D.C. did not need me at all. I thought that they were in a land far away and had no use for the common serf named Richard. But oh, was I wrong!! This week, I received "personal" recorded messages from John McCain every twenty minutes. Perhaps that is why he won the primary. You see, Mike Huckabee did not bother to call. Some pastors are super political. They will tell you how to vote and act like Jesus was a republican. I am not one of those people. It seems that John Kerry knew that, because he called too. His very important message for me was that Obama is not a Muslim radical, but a Christian who lives his beliefs daily. Good Info for me, I guess...oh and Mitt, I am a Morman but that does not matter, Romney called me too. Now, I realize that after all the elections are over, things will return to the norm. But for a few phone calls, it was semi-exciting to be wrong.

During the Old Testament--God was viewed as the "Holy Other" who would appear on the scene and display great power and might. He was in the Pillar of Fire, the Plagues, and the flood. He was the God that was far away--but when He came near--his power was greatly displayed.

We spoke about the Incarnation during Advent, the God of Heaven--coming down to earth and dwelling among His people. Today in our text--we see God manifest Himself again, in a form that is most uncommon.

Luke 3 :15-22

And as the people were in expectation, and all men mused in their hearts of John, whether he were the Christ, or not; John answered, saying unto them all, I indeed baptize you with water; but one mightier than I cometh, the latchet of whose shoes I am not worthy to unloose: he shall baptize you with the Holy Ghost and with fire: Whose fan is in his hand, and he will thoroughly purge his floor, and will gather the wheat into his garner; but the chaff he will burn with fire unquenchable. And many other things in his exhortation preached he unto the people. But Herod the tetrarch, being reproved by him for Herodias his brother Philip's wife, and for all the evils which Herod had done, Added yet this above all, that he shut up John in prison.

Now when all the people were baptized, it came to pass, that Jesus also being baptized, and praying, the heaven was opened, and the Holy Ghost descended in a bodily shape like a dove upon him, and a voice came from heaven, which said, Thou art my beloved Son; in thee I am well pleased.

John speaks with tremendous power and authority. Jesus is described as one who would purge the floor and separate the wheat from the chaff. John was not an "Ear tickler" but one that warned of the wrath and judgement of God and the need of repentance. He fits in the mold of the Old Testament prophet, and prepares the way for the Kingdom message of Jesus.

On one of these days of preaching and baptizing--Jesus comes forward in obedience to God. In this setting, I am not going to get into the HOW's and WHY's of this baptism. I am available afterwards or anytime to discuss possible reasons and mode of baptism used here. In this interdenominational setting--I do not see those conversations as pertinent to the sermon.

The point today is that the Spirit of God came down that day. Not in the form of thunder and lightning--although that would have surely made people high tail out of the Jordan River. You can almost see them saying to each other, " Wow, I repented just in time--Here comes God to let Loose His Holy Hammer of Judgement." But instead, a dove descends and the voice of God is heard. The KJV says, "This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased." The Southern translation is.."Son, you done good !"

God surprises us in the different ways He impacts our lives. Last night, at a 65th birthday party, I was able to experience the love of God in several meaningful ways. God was there in laughter, he was there in hugs, he was there in stories, he was there in Bob Pearson (the birthday boy) as tears of joy choked his words away. God was there as a video montage was played showing the life of a man, now on the backside of the Hill, growing up, having kids, losing hair, gaining weight but living just the same. God among the living--that is good news.

I made a pastoral call this week to the home of a man dying. He has liver cancer and the prognosis is dark. He has no energy and can barely speak. He knows that Jesus is walking the road with him, and he is resigned to the fact that soon the hill will be unclimbable. He waits for a miracle--but knows that death will most likely be the answer to the prayers that he prays. As I held a grown man, with his head on my chest, God was there, among the dying, and that is good news.

We act as if we understand God. If we are honest we admit that we are only kidding ourselves. Donald Miller writes in a book that I wrapped up this week, the following quote that fits the sermon perfectly, "I probably know as much about God as a baby knows the physics of the mobile above his crib."

Preachers expound the Word of God so that we can attempt to know the unknowable. God reveals Himself to us in scripture, and most fully in Jesus, the Son, who obeyed. May the winds of His Spirit illuminate our lives and may we see Him, as He shows Himself to us.